Brother's
nightmares come to end after forgiving sister's murderer
Meeting cools sting in heart, Man
no longer believes in death penalty after seeing change in Glenn Benner II
By Carol Biliczky,
Beacon Journal staff writer
For
years, Rodney Bowser spewed raw hate for Glenn Benner II, the man who raped and
killed his beloved little sister.
``I
couldn't even hear his name without going grrrrrrr,'' Bowser said in an
interview Thursday at his Tallmadge home. He clenched his fists to emphasize the
hatred.
But
all that has changed.
It
happened after the two met at the Southern Ohio Correctional Facility in
Lucasville shortly before Benner was executed last week.
Rodney
Bowser calls this ``the most bizarre ending'' he could imagine.
Bowser,
a 48-year-old machinist, spent two decades cursing the former childhood friend
who killed his 21-year-old sister, Trina, a wholesome and pretty secretary, in
1986.
He
and his parents, Joyce and Willard Bowser, and his three older brothers spent
years tracking the Benner case's torturous progress through the courts. They
couldn't wait for Benner to die; they begged Gov. Bob Taft not to grant him any
leniency.
Rodney
Bowser was so overcome at Benner's clemency hearing in January that he couldn't
make his remarks. Instead, he covered his face with his hands and wept.
Questions
answered
But
he didn't want Benner, 43, to go to his grave without answering questions about
Trina's death, clearing up mysteries that baffled police and family alike.
Foremost
was this: When Trina left a girlfriend's house in Stow at 10 p.m. on Jan. 1,
1986, to go home, what happened in the next two hours?
A
little after midnight on that snowy night, passersby spotted Trina's car ablaze,
parked on the berm of Interstate 76. Rodney and his parents opened the trunk to
find Trina's naked body, her fake fur coat covering her torso and underpants
covering her face.
That
horrid picture would flash over and over in Rodney Bowser's mind.
In
the final weeks before Benner's execution on Feb. 7, the Bowser family tried to
set up a meeting with Trina's killer to fill in the lost two hours. Rodney,
closest in age to Benner, was drafted for the job.
The
first meeting at the Ohio State Penitentiary in Youngstown on Jan. 30 didn't
happen.
Benner,
then housed there, got angry over unrelated issues, an official told Bowser.
But
on the night before his execution, right after he had said goodbye to 17 family
members and friends, Benner made a phone call to Rodney Bowser. It was the first
time the two had talked in 20 years.
The
call lasted for about 20 minutes. They agreed to meet the next morning, minutes
before Benner would die.
But
Benner wasn't sure officials would permit that. The Ohio Department of
Rehabilitation and Correction had never allowed a member of a victim's family to
meet with a prisoner in the death house, the spartan building at the Lucasville
prison in which all executions take place.
So
Benner called Rodney Bowser back for a second talk -- just in case. This one
lasted 90 minutes.
They
talked about their lives. They'd grown up two houses from each other -- Bowser
in Tallmadge and Benner in Springfield Township. They'd played bows and arrows
together.
Benner
talked about how he hated prison. He implied that he had faced almost as much
violence in prison as he had doled out on the outside. He said this was no way
to live.
They
talked about the awful details of Trina's death.
``Don't
sugar-coat it,'' Bowser said he told Benner. ``Give it to me straight.''
Bowser
won't repeat those details, except to say that Benner and Trina met accidentally
at a Lawson's store. Benner was buying cigarettes; Trina pulled in the parking
lot and approached him, not knowing he had raped and killed Cynthia Sedgwick,
26, of Cleveland Heights the previous August. Trina knew him from the
neighborhood. She was just being friendly.
Meeting
face-to-face
About
an hour after Benner and Rodney Bowser had their second phone conversation,
Rodney was in the car, headed as planned to the Lucasville prison in southern
Ohio.
His
confidence buckled when he walked into the death house early in the morning on
Feb. 7 for his person-to-person talk with Benner, who was scheduled to die at 10
a.m.
``I
almost backed out,'' he recalled. ``I was shaking like a leaf.''
Major
David Warren, the prison's head of security, was dubious. Before he let the two
meet, he sat Bowser down. Stay calm, he warned him. Keep Benner calm.
Prison
officials didn't want to have to drag an upset Benner to his execution, Andrea
Dean, spokeswoman for the Ohio prison system explained this week.
So
Benner and Bowser talked in low voices through the jail bars. They went back
over the same topics covered in the phone calls. About 10 members of Benner's
execution team stood just out of earshot.
Bowser
said Benner didn't know why he killed. He didn't blame marijuana and alcohol,
his companions since age 12.
``
`All my friends did those, and they didn't end up killing anybody,' '' Bowser
quoted Benner as saying.
They
called each other by their childhood nicknames -- ``Bimbo'' for Benner and
``Rodney Man'' for Bowser.
Bowser
clocked their talk, which began at 8 a.m., at 17 minutes -- two minutes over the
limit. They were calm. There were tears. They shook hands.
After
that, Bowser was so overcome with emotion he gave up his execution witness seat
to one of his brothers. He didn't want to see it happen. More surprising, he
didn't want it to happen at all.
``I
didn't want to deal with it,'' Bowser said, ``and I didn't want to take away
from what the rest of the family wanted.''
At
8:55 a.m., he called Benner back. He was told that Benner was being readied for
his execution and couldn't talk. But his spiritual advisor passed on Bowser's
message -- that Bowser forgave him.
About
an hour later, just before he died, Benner publicly apologized to the Bowser and
Sedgwick families. He called Trina and Cynthia ``beautiful girls who didn't
deserve what I done to them.''
A
changed man
As
Rodney Bowser sees it, by the time of his death Benner was a changed man. He had
become religious. He wanted the Bowser family -- and especially Rodney -- to
learn what they wanted to know. Though Benner didn't attend his own clemency
hearing, he did see news reports and read the transcript of the remarks that
Bowser was too overcome to deliver. Bowser knows that because Benner talked
about those remarks.
Since
Benner's death, Bowser has compared the known facts about Trina's death with
what Benner told him. Bowser has concluded that Benner told the truth.
Rodney
Bowser also has shared Benner's story with his parents -- as much as they wanted
to hear, that is.
A
weight has been lifted. Rodney Bowser doesn't have nightmares any more.
He
doesn't believe in the death penalty anymore, either. A life sentence for Benner
would have been just fine, he says now. People can change, he now believes.
After
all, his sister's killer did.
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